Helen Ettline - Every Dell Rat's Mom: He's Gone to Cha Cha Cha Up On The Roof

 Shady Dell owner Helen Ettline 

 didn't have any children of her own. 

 In a way, we were all her kids 

 and she was our mom. 

Clearly Helen & John

loved kids. Why else

would they have

put up with the

aggravation all

those years?

The Ettlines

believed in kids.

They enjoyed

counseling and

helping kids.

The pictures above and below remind me ever so much of Helen's snack bar

and the jukebox in the adjoining room where rows of diner booths were located.

To remember and honor

Helen on Mother's Day,

I picked four songs that

I think she would enjoy.

Helen, these are for you.

 LITTLE ANTHONY 

 AND THE IMPERIALS 

Over the years, on Helen's special days, I have often played

"Two People In The World," by Little Anthony And The Imperials.

I refer to the ballad as "Helen's Song" because I remember it

being played so many times on the snack bar jukebox. 

Today, as we honor Helen on Mother's Day, I'd like to spin another

Little Anthony classic. From the fall of 1964, here is the group's

top 20 comeback hit, a song written by Teddy Randazzo and

Bobby Weinstein. Little Anthony And The Imperials sing--

"I'm On The Outside (Looking In)."

"I'm On The Outside (Looking In)" - Little Anthony And The Imperials

(Sept./Oct. 1964, highest chart pos. #15 Hot 100 & R&B/#20 Cash Box) 

 THE DRIFTERS 

"The Second Drifters" is the name given in 1958 to the new lineup

of the veteran doo-wop/R&B/Soul group. In 1961, The Drifters

got another makeover when Rudy Lewis joined as lead singer.

Lewis led the group on a string of polished, sophisticated, orchestrated hits

of the pre-Beatles early 60s. I think Helen would enjoy this song, one of the

group's biggest successes of the period. Written by the Brill Building team

of Gerry Goffin and Carole King, the song reminds city dwellers that

they can escape the hustle and bustle of life on the street and

shed their cares and woes  -- "Up On The Roof."

"Up On The Roof" - The Drifters

(Dec. 1962/Jan. 1963, highest chart pos.

#4 R&B/#5 Hot 100/#6 Cash Box)

 THE CHANTELS 

Up next, the angelic harmonies of The Chantels, the pioneering Bronx-

based African-American R&B girl group of the 50s led by Arlene Smith. 

The Chantels gained their first charting record in the fall of 1957 with

 a song written by Arlene. The single made a dent in the pop chart

but, oddly, didn't show up on the R&B survey. Listen now to

this glorious ballad, one of The Chantels' best recordings

and a classic of the genre -- "He's Gone." 

"He's Gone" - The Chantels

(Oct. 1957, highest chart pos. #71 Hot 100)

 SAM COOKE 

To complete this year's Mother's Day song serenade for Helen,

here's singer/songwriter Sam Cooke with one of his biggest R&B hits. 

It's a song Sam wrote about the cha-cha-cha, a Cuban dance that gained
widespread popularity in America in the late 50s. Released at the start
of 1959, Sam's single reached #2 on the R&B chart and made a run
at the top 30 on the pop side. The young folks in the audience were
chewing up a storm as Sam appeared on Dick Clark's Saturday Night
Beechnut Show and declared-- "Everybody Likes to Cha Cha Cha!"

"Everybody Likes To Cha Cha Cha" - Sam Cooke

(Mar. thru May 1959, highest chart pos. #2 R&B,

#31 Hot 100, performance on Mar. 14, 1959, ep.

of Dick Cark's Saturday Night Beechnut Show) 

 Happy Mother's Day, Helen! 

 We love you and miss you! 

Remembering Helen

SHADY DELL OWNER

HELEN ETTLINE

DIED FEBRUARY 25, 1984,

39 YEARS AGO TODAY.

Whenever I hear this song, it reminds me

of a very special person, the first lady

of the Shady Dell... Helen Ettline.

Unforgettable, Helen...

That's what you are!

We love you and miss you.

Helen & John Week: April Love in January

Two important dates on

the Shady Dell calendar
are only one week apart:

Helen Ettline's birthday

(January 9) and the date

of John Ettline's death

(January 16).

Again this year I am combining
the two events into a single post
that honors both of the Ettlines.

Just think of this period in mid
January as "Helen & John Week."

 HELEN TROSTLE ETTLINE 

was born 112 years ago
on January 9, 1911.

 JOHN ETTLINE 

died January 16, 1993...
30 years ago...

John spent the last nine years

of his life without Helen. Imagine

the strength and courage it took

for John, a man in his 80s, to go it 

alone, enduring the hardships of

winter and keeping the Dell in

operation even as the teenage

patrons became increasingly

rough, rowdy and disrespectful.

How many of us could have

stood up to that challenge?

This year as we celebrate Helen's birthday and remember John,
I will play records I think they both would have enjoyed.

Every evening Helen was stationed behind the counter of the
Shady Dell snack bar preparing treats to feed the masses.

As Helen worked, a steady stream of doo-wop songs

played on the jukebox. It was a busy, noisy place,

but the old school sounds cut through the clutter

and delighted Helen and her young customers. 

 GARNET MIMMS 

 & THE ENCHANTERS 

The snack bar was Helen's domain, and that's where you could typically find her.

It was very unusual for her to poke her head into "the barn" dance hall. In fact,

in my six years as a Dell rat, I recall Helen coming down to the barn only once.

She happened to walk through the door as a Garnet Mimms song was playing

on the jukebox.  I remember the big smile on Helen's face as she listened to the

ballad and watched couples slow dance to it.  With that happy memory in mind,

I picked three Garnet Mimms ballads to play for Helen on this special occasion.

Born in West Virginia, raised in Philadelphia and steeped in soul,

Garnet Mimms recorded ballads that were loved by Shady Dell

rat packers. In early 1964, at the start of Beatlemania, Mimms'

gospel roots were showing when he released the churchified

"Anytime You Want Me" on the B side of "Tell Me Baby." 

 "Anytime You Want Me" - Garnet Mimms 

 (Feb./Mar. 1964, B side of "Tell Me Baby")  

My soul serenade for Helen continues now with both songs

found on a single that Garnet Mimms recorded with

Charles Boyer and Zola Pearnell  using the group

name Garnet Mimms And The Enchanters.

Released during Halloween season 1963, this is a "twofer" - two top 30

hits on the same 45 rpm record. The A side, "For Your Precious Love"

is a cover of the 1958 hit by Jerry Butler & The Impressions.  

 "For Your Precious Love" - Garnet Mimms And The Enchanters 

 (Dec. 1963/Jan '64, highest cht. pos. #26 Hot 100 & R&B/#34 Cash Box) 

Finally, you'll swear you're sitting in church listening to the choir

as you experience the B side of the platter, a gospel-drenched

Garnet Mimms ballad entitled "Baby Don't You Weep." 

 "Baby Don't You Weep" - Garnet Mimms And The Enchanters 

 (Dec. 1963/Jan. 1964, highest chart pos. #30 Hot 100 & R&B, 

 #40 Cash Box, B side of "For Your Precious Love") 

Now here are three records I think John would like.

 APRIL STEVENS 

John was known as a sharp dressed man,

a man's man and a ladies' man. With that

in mind, I present the lovely April Stevens,

best known for her recordings as a duo with

brother Nino Tempo. Early in her career,

April appeared in Snader Telescriptions -

film versions of popular and classical

music performances produced for

television from 1950 to 1952. Singers,

dancers, orchestras, and novelty acts

appeared in Snader musical productions.

In this first one, April performs the song

"Tricks Of The Trade," the B side of her

1952 RCA Victor single "Put Me In Your

Pocket." An edited version of this Snader

Telescription was shown on the television

series The Frank Fontaine Show.

 

 "The Tricks Of The Trade" - April Stevens  

 (1952, B side of "Put Me In Your Pocket," 

 1952 perf. in Snader Telescription film) 

Now here's April appearing in another

Snader Telescription and performing

another B side. April sings "Meant

To Tell You," the fab flip of her

1952 single "I Love The Way

You're Breaking My Heart." 

 "Meant To Tell You" 

 - April Stevens 

 (1952, B side of 

 "I Love The Way 

 You're Breaking My 

 Heart," 1952 Snader 

 Telescription film ) 

Finally, here's the popular song

"Lover Man (Oh, Where Can You Be?)"

aka "Lover Man," written in 1941 for

Billie Holiday. Billie's version was

inducted into the Grammy Hall

of Fame in 1989. Watch and listen

as adorable April Stevens does her

version of "Lover Man" in a third

made for TV Snader Telescription. 

 "Lover Man" - April Stevens 

 (1952 performance in 

 Snader Telescription film) 

 HAPPY BIRTHDAY, 

 HELEN! 

 WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU. 

John, you were the King of all Dell Rats.

If we have anything to say about it, you
and Helen will always be remembered.

We love you and miss you, too!

E! (as in Ettline) True Shady Dell Story

It's Father's Day...

time to honor 

JOHN ETTLINE

"Every Dell Rat's Dad."

John didn't have kids of his own but, as every Dell rat knows,

he was a genuine father figure and would have made a great dad.

Hi, friends!  Dell Rat Tom back with

you today to bring you a very special

Father's Day tribute to John Ettline.

 Instead of posting Paul Petersen's

"My Dad" song as I have done on

this occasion the last several years,

 I proudly present a Shady's Place

exclusive. My good friend and

contributing editor Jim Sieling

has returned to share pictures,

memories and little known

facts about John Ettline's

life and death.

As Jim begins his story below, you might be confused at first, as was I.

Turns out, Shady Dell owner John Ettline's father was also named 

John, and John's mother was named Helen, the same name as

the woman John married, our dear Helen of the Dell.

Jim and Nancy Sieling

Above is a picture of our friend Jim and his wife Nancy, one of

John Ettline's nieces.  Over the years, Jim and Nancy have made

numerous significant contributions to my Shady Dell related blogs,

and I'll be forever grateful to them. In this Father's Day tribute

to John, you will see never before before published pictures

of Jim and Nancy and get to know them and other

members of our Shady Dell family.

I'm sure you've heard of the E! True Hollywood Story.

For Dell rats, old and new, here now is the

E! (as in Ettline) True Shady Dell Story

as told by our good friend Jim Sieling.

"MY TRUE STORY" - THE JIVE FIVE

JIM SIELING: Strange fact - Shady Dell owner John Ettline’s father

was also named John (John Loid Ettline), and John's grandfather 

and great grandfather were named John as well! 

Helen Louise Pape & John Loid Ettline

(Note father's resemblance to "our" John!)

 The John Loid Ettline family lived on Park St. in York. He and his

wife Helen Louise Pape had eight children - four boys and four girls.

 John Frederick Ettline, who would one day become both famous

and infamous as the owner of The Shady Dell, was the oldest

of the eight. As the parents lived on Park St. until they died,

I assume John F received all his grade school education

in York and graduated from William Penn High School.

He served in the Army in the 2nd World War in

 Europe and I found a purple heart in Nancy’s

memorabilia which I assume is his. 

I first met John in about 1950 (plus or minus). My mother,

who grew up in Glen Rock, somehow got to know the

Ettlines of York and went out with one of the Ettline

boys a couple of times in the 1930’s.

SHADY DELL CIRCA LATE 1920S/EARLY 30S

 I remember my father and mother taking me over to see this (I think new or

maybe remodeled) place that had opened up (or about to be opened up)

called The Shady Dell and being shown around by the owner. I was

around 8 years old at the time and don’t remember much but I do

recall the big house and outside all these brightly colored lights

strung out between the house and trees. I remember there were

tables outside under the lights and a place to dance. Really neat. 

"PARTY LIGHTS" - CLAUDINE CLARK 

Who would have thought that 20 odd years later

I would marry the Dell owner’s niece?

In 1959, I got to know a new girl, age 16,

who had just moved into my neighborhood.

Nancy Eppley - age 16, 1959

John Ettline's niece 

 

She was the daughter of Louise Ettline Eppley,

one of John’s sisters. 

Jim Sieling - age 17, 1959

I was hooked. Nancy stole my heart that summer

and, after 13 years of being friends, we were married. 

"TO THE AISLE" - THE FIVE SATINS 

(above & below) Jim and Nancy Sieling

In the Ettline family, I believe the closest contact to the

Shady Dell, via her Uncle John, was Nancy.

 For whatever reason there was a strong bond between them. 

 Before our marriage, Nancy would often visit with John and help out.

VIEW OF DELL FROM STARCROSS ROAD WITH

SHADY DELL ROAD SIGN VISIBLE (2018)

 Did you know that John was always worried that the “Dell Rats”

(not his words) would leave the street messy, and every morning

he would go out picking up any litter left on the street from

the night before? Nancy fondly remembered going out

with John in his red Jeep picking up trash. 

In the basement of the house there were a room or two where John

and Helen would let girls that were being abused stay over in safety. 

(ABOVE AND BELOW) SHADY DELL BASEMENT (2010)

After John’s death, Nancy told me about the rooms in the basement

for the women’s protection while showing them to me.

They were very well kept and clean. 

I'd like to insert an important

tidbit at this point, Jim.

 Folks, if what Jim just reported is true,

then it is possible that John and Helen

housed runaway women and girls in

their basement as well as in the third

floor attic, perhaps both places at once!

In 2008, Nancy's cousin, Shirley Dreyer,

another of John's nieces whom, as Jim

informs us, is "the unofficial historian

of the Ettline family," contacted me

with the following revelations:

 

SHIRLEY DREYER:  Did you every wonder why he (John)

always carried around the "billyclub"? My father told me years

after I was married and I was shocked to learn the reason.

It seems Uncle John also housed battered women in his home. 

SHADY DELL'S 3RD FLOOR ATTIC (2012)

SHIRLEY DREYER: There was a 3rd floor in his home and that is where they

stayed until they could find other shelter. So you might say it was, most likely,

the first home in York prior to Access York and other agencies available to

 women who needed to get away from their abuser. Daddy said he did not

tell me when I was younger because it was a possibility that word would

get out to the wrong people and he wanted to protect his brother.

So I guess that is at least one of the reasons for the "billyclub".

JIM SIELING: It is pure speculation on my part, but this is what I suspect

may have occurred: John & Helen saw the need to help young girls/women

in need from abuse. At first, the natural solution would have been up in the

attic and it may have been used for a time. It was a nice spacious solution.

SHADY DELL'S 3RD FLOOR ATTIC (2012) 

However, it may not have been finished off and there likely

was no heat in the attic. The attic was probably very cold

in the winter, particularly if it was not insulated.

 

(ABOVE AND BELOW) DIFFERENT ANGLES OF DELL ATTIC (2012) 

 In the summer, the attic was probably unbearably hot with the heat just

radiating down from the roof. Certainly no air conditioning was available

(and a window unit, if available, would have been a big clue that someone

was living there). Anyway, it makes sense to me that at some point

they moved their women support area to the basement.

 Please remember, John’s seven younger siblings saw him as an

enigma - he kept his affairs private and they knew little about him.

When I married into the Ettline family, I soon learned that John

was a little aloof from the rest of his siblings and did not

attend many of the family events. (He was probably

too busy running the Dell – I don’t think

he had any backup). 

The big question among family members was

whether John and Helen were actually married.

(I’ll bet John liked that they didn’t even know

if he was married or not. They must have had

a private wedding). Note: we did discover

their marriage certificate after his death. 

Also, I do not know if you as a Dell Rat knew that the Ettlines were pack rats.

When cleanup started after John’s death, it was impossible to get to the 2nd

floor without digging our way up the stairs, let alone getting up to the attic.

Perhaps the clutter only happened after Helen’s death but, at the very

least, I suspect they would have used the attic for storage way before.

STAIRS LEADING DOWN FROM 3RD TO 2ND FLOOR (2012) 

 When John died all upstairs rooms, stairs, and hallways were packed solid.

The stored ‘stuff’ probably started in the attic and worked it’s way down

to the second floor. At some point John was sleeping on the first floor –

no easy access to the 2nd floor. (I do remember the family cleaning

 crew remarking that no Ettline family member had ever been on

the 2nd or 3rd floor before}. After Helen died, Louise Eppley,

John’s sister, would help out in the snack bar. When John

died, she was the executor of his estate.  

JOHN ETTLINE

I believe John came to stay with Nancy and our family in the spring of 1992.

He had been living by himself at the Dell, was out checking for mail or the

paper, and was sideswiped by a car, knocking him over and hurting a leg.

There was never any legal action taken, but I do not know if it was a

hit and run or not. After getting out of the hospital or rehab, he stayed

at our house until he could walk better. Nancy gave him a quota of a

certain number of daily laps he had to take around the dining room

table to exercise the leg and keep him moving. 

Jim, pardon me for interrupting you again,

but I need to say that this part of your story

is disturbing and comes as a shock, not only

to me but, I'm sure, to other Dell rats as well. 

It makes me sad to realize that elderly John

 Ettline, a man we admired so much, was

struck by a car outside the Dell and sent

to the hospital. This is the first time I am

hearing about the incident. Now that you

have given us a clearer picture of the last

years of John's life... it is upsetting to

know how difficult they were for him.

John spent most of his final years alone, without Helen,

and having to deal with rowdy, disrespectful troublemakers

that hung out at the Dell during that period. Then, to top it off, 

he was hit by a car and taken out of his home for treatment

and rehab. From what I gather, he never returned to the Dell,

the place he loved, the place he fashioned for generations

of young people to enjoy. John was a great man who 

spent his life helping and bringing happiness

to others. He deserved better. 

 JIM SIELING: At the time John was here at our house recuperating,

our oldest son was a senior in high school. He and his younger brother

spent a lot of time talking (mostly listening) to John. They were

enthralled by the stories he had to tell. Our oldest son had a

high school graduation party here in our barn, and John was

certainly in his element greeting everyone as they arrived.

(at right --

Louise Ettline Eppley,

John's sister and

Nancy's mother)

As spring ended and John was

in pretty good shape, he moved

out to live with his sister Louise.

(I’m afraid he always felt like

he was imposing here and

didn’t feel comfortable).

 Louise didn’t nag him to stay

active and he died peacefully

in his sleep in 1993 at her house.

(Louise died in February, 2012.)

John’s memorial service was held at his gravesite and someone in his family

was given a letter from one of “The Dellions” who did not want to speak

at the service. Nancy asked me to read it which I did. The original letter

was written in long hand on the front and back of an 8 1/2” sheet of paper.

 Concerned that I might have trouble reading the handwriting out loud,

I typed it out for easier reading. I am amazed to discover that Nancy

had saved a copy of both the original and my typewritten version.

Nancy Sieling

(faithful friend of The Dell)

Nancy died on September 30, 2020, a month after she

had open heart surgery followed by a major stroke.  

Jim, I know I speak for all the readers when

I express to you how sorry I am for your loss.

 Nancy was a genuine friend who was very

generous to me over the years. She donated

Dell related pictures and memorabilia for

me to share on my old Shady Dell blog,

material that I continue to use here at

Shady's Place.  I will always remember

her kindness. Nancy's death serves as a

reminder of how important is for us to

get our cherished Dell memories sorted

out and published while there's still time.

The tribute to John written by anonymous

"Dellions" and read at John's service, is priceless. 

There, in that letter, is what I have been saying all along, what I have been

expressing to readers over the last 14 years. It is proof in black and white

that John Ettline was absolutely revered by the young people who knew

him, thousands of teenagers in York and neighboring counties who made

John's Shady Dell their home away from home in the mid twentieth century.

Thank you very much, Jim Sieling, for sharing boyhood memories

of your first visit to the Dell and meeting John Ettline more than

70 years ago, along with the touching story of how you met,

fell in love with and married Nancy, the Dell owner's niece.

 The facts, anecdotes and pictures you contributed for this special

Father's Day salute are valuable pieces of the puzzle. They help

 connect the dots, fill in the blanks and shine light on mysteries

surrounding John & Helen and their Shady Dell. Some of

your disclosures are troubling and heartbreaking but,

because they are part of the Dell's long, rich and

 colorful history, they needed to be told.

  You are a friend of the Dell and a friend of Shady's Place,

Jim, and your contributions are greatly appreciated.

Jim & Nancy - wedding day, 1972

In closing, I would like to dedicate this song

to you and Nancy and to Helen and John.

LOOK HOMEWARD ANGEL - THE MONARCHS 

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, JOHN.

WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!